Why you want what you want?

​In meeting some fabulous new people this week, and reconnecting with some dear relationships from the past, it has me thinking to why we want what we want and how we decide what we want when we want it. Confused yet, it's ok, we will get there...clarity here we come!

Reflection question:
Why are you doing what you are doing right now in your life? Is it because you think you should be doing it? Is it because you WANT to be doing these things, such as work, school choices, family, going to______ this weekend. Fill in the blanks, we all are doing quite a lot these days. Although, from years of observing and caring for individuals and families, I ponder, MOTIVATION and WHY people are doing what they are doing. 

While discussing goals of others lives, plans for their futures, family struggles, it is apparent that many are not doing what they WANT to be doing. They are doing what they THINK they SHOULD be doing. This is where I see a pattern of depression, anxiety, loss of success, aka failure, and all and all burn out and detachment from passion. 

Why are you doing what you are doing, and knowing why you are doing what you are doing will be the key for you to move towards being successful at whatever you are doing. It is the WHY!! There are ways to incorporate being genuine in our commitments. There is a way to reframe one's intentions and putting the passion back into life.

Finding your voice, being genuine in your intentions, and having reflection of why you are doing what you are doing in your life. Know thy intentions wise one. Do you know your intentions. The reason why this is so important is that others can FEEL your intentions. It is an energy. We see this with animals as well. They can feel fear, anger, genuine feelings, and they will react accordingly! Therefore, getting right with the WHY you are doing what you are doing in life, can unlock doors that you  never knew existed. 

Trust yourself, your intentions, and find your voice!

I say often, you are always right, that little voice inside, let's learn together how to listen to it. 

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